Many many moons ago, a certain blogger sent something to me.  I'd like to send her something but I'd like for it to be a surprise.  I no longer have her address, and she's moved since then anyway so little good it would do if I could actually find the old address.  I know she's in the RAOK ring.  Is it against the rules for me to ask someone else in the ring for her address so I can send her something?  Should I ask someone else to ask her for her address?  That would spoil the surprise a little since then she'd be expecting something in the mail but I'd settle for that if I have to.  Otherwise, I suppose I'll just have to ask her myself.  Any other ideas?